A Secret Women Know But Men Don't
I'd like to tell you a story...
It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be
alarmed.
Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a
particular woman.
At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he
got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and
the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into
a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.
But there was one problem.
As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew
more and more insecure.
Why?
Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way
towards him.
Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and
"I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed
past the "friendship" stage.
There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from
her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he
talked about an emotional issue.
But something was wrong with the picture.
She
just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was
acting like a friend.
The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself...
and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of
"screwing
things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.
Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want
to spend with him.
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